Tuesday, November 17, 2009

First Things First



I took this photo with my iPhone last September. I think it was after leaving a small cafe on Grove Street in the West Village.

This sign wasn't in the same area as the cafe, but I know it was somewhere in the Village area.

In fact, I remember the sign, but since I don't exactly remember taking the photo, it occured to me that I must have subconsciously taken the photo for future reference.

I will definitely need help finding an affordable apartment if I move when I move, so this Blue Star group will probably be getting a call from me at some point.

My resume is updated, so step one is complete.

The next hurdle is convincing my girlfriend to move there too.

I've already had some conversations with her about it, and at one point I even compromised with her so she'd stay open to the idea of moving there -- by agreeing to staying open to the idea of moving to Chicago (her fam is from there) or even Denver (I'm sure it's great there, but good lord, I hope not) for her sake.

But, when I sense that the time is right, I'm going to have to ask her to think about NYC exclusively. At least for the immediate future.

What makes it tough to sell, though, is that I can't explain exactly why it's so important for me to live in NYC.

It's just something I need to do. At least for a while, so I know once and for all whether or not this longing is a just a phase that I need to go through, or if it's a long-term personal need.

It's feels like a 'destiny thing' or something like it.

She seems to be warming up to it, but I can never count on full acceptance/closure on the issue with her.

Like many of the women in my life, she changes her mind about sixty times every minute.

Which makes it tough to bring plans to a solid commitment/agreement on where we're moving to.

But, this should not come as much of a shock to me.

Indecision, fear of change/the unknown, and the fickle nature of others have always been a barrier for me to overcome.

Again, this will not be easy.

It's 2:38 AM on a Tuesday, and I'm still stressing about all these obstacles in front of me!

Guess it's time to cue up the iPod and try to decompress a little.

Relaxing with a glass of wine would be nice, but I guess you can't have everything.

I mean, where would you put it all...
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1 comment:

  1. R- you cannot go somewhere BEFORE living in NYC, you just cant. Its your dream and is taking so much of you just to make this move, dont give up on your dream ok? If she loves you she will go or stick by you, you have certainly done it for her. Dont move here yet, youll always be wondering about life in NYC, focus on getting there first then about other potential places. Promise?

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